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Finding your debut toy can seem overwhelming with all the shapes, sizes and features out there. But don't worry, we got you!
Whether for solo or couple play, when it comes to picking your debut toy, it's all about individual preference because pleasure is as unique as you are. For instance, do you lean more towards internal stimulation, or are you all about that external clitoral delight?
For newcomers, simplicity is the name of the game. Start with a basic sex toy, like a small Bunsy vibrator or a sleek toy like the Carina G-spot non-intimidating dildo and opt for one with adjustable settings to experiment with different intensity levels for a user-friendly experience. In terms of material, silicone toys are a go-to choice because of its soft, flexible, non-porous, and hypoallergenic, ensuring a body-safe, comfortable, and hassle-free cleanup.
If clitoral stimulation is your focus, consider handheld options like wands or bullet vibrators. For a more thrilling experience, explore pulsating suction sex toys, offering gentle airwaves for a toe-curling pleasure sensation.
When it comes to internal stimulation, factor in the size and shape of the toy. For beginners, a smaller option might provide more comfort, allowing you to ease into it over time. Look out for penetrative toys with tapered tips for smooth insertion, and remember to use plenty of lubrication for a more enjoyable experience. And if you're up for it, suction-based dildos look good and bring versatility to the table, making it easy to try out different positions, especially if you're new to this.
Surprisingly, glass dildos aren't exclusive to experienced users but are also great for beginners! Crafted from borosilicate glass, these toys are body-safe, durable, firm, shatter-resistant, non-porous, and hypoallergenic. Their smooth material ensures an easy and satisfying penetration experience, with the bonus of quickly warming up upon insertion for a more organic feeling.
If you're interested in exploring anal play, select an anal toy featuring a tapered tip for effortless insertion and a flared base for safety. Our recommended fuss-free choice would be using hybrid-based lubricant generously for lubrication as it is compatible with silicone toys and offers more lubrication than water-based options, which is essential, especially considering the anus doesn't self-lubricate. Dive into our anal play guide to prepare, and remember, the right lube is crucial for an enjoyable and memorable time with any female sex toy.
Lastly, for couple's play, remote-controlled vibrators take intimacy to new heights! Enjoy hands-free excitement while exploring other erogenous zones with your partner. These discreet couple toys can be used internally or externally, like Valentina Clip-on Vibrator where you can clip them onto your underwear with a magnetic hold for some sneaky, naughty fun.
Everyone's pleasure journey is unique, and it’s all about what feels right for you, so go at your own pace. If you want more handy tips, check out our beginner's guide to sex toys to find your perfect playmate!
When it comes to hitting the sweet spot (a.k.a. the clitoris), keep an eye out for compact vibrators, bullet vibrators, wand massagers, or clit suction toys. These buzzing wonders are made to zero in on the clitoral area using vibrations or pulsating airwaves for pure satisfaction. And here's a fun fact: the clitoris packs over 10,000 nerve endings, and its sole purpose is to provide pleasure! So, let's give it the attention it deserves for some next-level arousal!
Wondering about the "elusive" G-spot? No need for a GPS! We've got G-spot dildos crafted specifically to awaken that area. Keep an eye out for curved-shaped dildos — they're designed to target and stimulate the G-spot located on the front wall of the vagina (when you're lying down, it's the top wall). Typically, it's just 2-3 inches from the vaginal entrance! Some dildos, like glass dildos or rabbit dildos, are simple, phallic and firm, while others may not resemble the usual design. Regardless, they all provide that familiar satisfaction of penetration. There are even vibrating, thrusting, tapping, or stroking options for a toe-curling experience! And, of course, for a smooth and comfortable glide-through, don't forget to pair your penetrative toys with some lube!
For the ultimate blended orgasm, our rabbit vibrators are the key. Expertly designed for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation, these female sex toys feature a main shaft for internal pleasure and an external arm to caress your clitoral area. Dive into our collection to discover toys that harmonise every sensation for a full-body experience. Don't forget, pairing these with a quality lubricant enhances every glide and thrust, ensuring maximum comfort and pleasure.
Water-based lubricants are compatible with most toys and are easy to clean. If you're using silicone toys, avoid silicone-based lubricants, which can degrade the material. For extended sessions, consider using hybrid lubes like Liquid Silk Lubricant. Its thicker consistency makes them an excellent, long-lasting companion for both vaginal and anal play, providing added moisture.
Important advice: When engaging in anal play with silicone adult toys, steer clear of silicone-based lubes and instead, opt for hybrid-based lubricants. This ensures a smoother and more comfortable play session without risking any damage to the material of your toys. Hybrid options also offer superior moisturising effects compared to water-based alternatives – a crucial factor, especially since the anus doesn't naturally lubricate. That said, if you're using different materials like glass or metal toys or engaging in skin-to-skin contact only, silicone lubes can be a fantastic choice for a longer-lasting play session.
Check if your toy is waterproof or water-resistant. All of our female sex toys are at least IPX 6 waterproof, making them suitable for use in the shower for some extra fun!
Keep your female sex toys in top-notch condition by giving them a gentle wash with mild soap and water — no need for vigorous scrubbing. For an extra layer of safety, consider using a sex toy cleaner before drying and storing. And, of course, don't forget to clean your toys after each use! Just be cautious with high heat and harsh chemicals. For a deeper dive into care instructions, refer to our user manual for all the details.
Store your toy in a dry, cool place away from direct sunlight. Use a dedicated storage bag like our Hedonist Satin Pouch to keep it dust-free and separate from other toys to prevent material degradation.