How To Turn A Girl On
Men are visual creatures, while women, well they get turned on more by how they feel and their imaginations rather than just a strip-show. What turns a man on is totally different from a women, and once you understand the power of the emotional vibe, you'll be scoring major points in the hotness department!
1. Eye Contact
Eye contact is hotttt. Lock eyes with her during a conversation, a shared laugh, or a more quiet moment, and let the connection deepen.
These small moments of intimacy are big turn-on for many women who like that direct connection.
2. Compliments
Start with genuine compliments that make her feel like a queen. Whether it's her dazzling grin, infectious laughter, or sharp wit, it will help to set the mood without being too forward.
A well-timed compliment can unlock a woman's fiery passion and boost her desire, making her feel treasured and empowered. It shows that you see her worth and will leave her brimming with confidence!
3. Create Anticipation
The key is to spark excitement, curiosity and temptation. Things like teasing your partner throughout the day with flirty messages, telling her what you want to do to her when she gets back home, etc.
Letting her know that she’s on your mind makes her feel cherished and anticipate seeing you.
4. Gentle Touch
You know those movie moments when people trace their fingers gently on another’s skin? YAS. Deliberation can women weak in their knees.
Initiating touch can be tricky. Here are some tips to ensure it's done appropriately:
- Touch non-invasive areas like the hand, elbow, or arm.
- If you're unsure, it's wise to ask for consent. This shows your respect for her boundaries and ensures that you're both comfortable.
5. Find Her Erogenous Zones
So here’s the deal, it’s not all about her vulva and the clitoris. While they are common zones, finding her other hotspots can change things up and make things more exciting.
Other erogenous hotspots include: nape of neck, lower back, inner wrists, scalp. The important thing is to pay attention to the areas she responds most to.
6. Confidence, Not Cockiness
Picture this: you're rocking that smooth confident vibe but with a touch of understated charm. It's almost like you're whispering to her, "I’ve got this," without even uttering a word.
Hot tip: A lower-pitch voice oozes with a sense of power and finesse.
7. Personal Grooming
A person who puts thought into their grooming often appears more in control of themselves. And no we’re not saying to douse yourself in cologne/perfume, it’s really more about tidying yourself up and looking presentable.
- Choose simple and clean styles
- Wear something muted and natural, like musk instead of an overpowering scent
8. Be Mindful Of Her Pleasure
Finding out what makes her orgasm not only makes her feel like a goddess but also turns sex from a chore into a thrilling experience.
Communication is key – have an open chat to understand her desires and preferences. By tailoring your approach, you're not just becoming a better lover; you're creating a unique pleasure journey for both of you.
Turning a girl on is an art that combines playfulness, attentiveness, and a dash of spontaneity. By keeping things light, respecting her pace, and embracing emotional connection, you're sure to create an environment where sparks fly naturally!
Need a deeper level of understanding for your relationship? Check out our pleasure empowerment workshop Better Sex Beyond The Bedroom, to help you increase intimacy and learn to prioritize your sexual relationship.
