Looking to host a hedonist party in the comforts of your own home that will leave everyone talking about it for months?
We Got You! Here's an 8 STEP guide on how to become the ‘Hostess with the mostest’ with a little help from your Hedonistas:
1 - Choosing your group of friends
The secret ingredient to a good night in is the people you invite. The selection process is key.
Make sure to invite the friends who not only get along or have the potential to get along, but also know how to have fun, are open minded and possess a keen interest in sexual wellness & owning their pleasure! Perhaps that colleague or aunt who deemed a tad conservative isn’t the best idea but rest assured we will try to break the ice regardless. We will similarly do our due diligence to get to know you better because as they say, customer is king and we will make sure to read the room.
2 - If you fail to plan, you plan to fail
Planning ahead is crucial. If you want your event to be a success, plan ahead to make sure all the friends you had in mind are available on that day and have enough time to build up the excitement and anticipation for the big day ahead! Ideally, we advise 1-weeks notice which will give us ample preparation time for the event to plan out the itinerary and rundown.
3 - Send out the invites
It's time to invite your friends! We advise that you communicate clearly what the party will entail to manage everyone's expectations. Let them know the event details, fees, timings and anything else you would like them to bring to the party. We usually let the host plan the menu or F&B for the event but are more than happy to assist with recommendations and referrals for party canapés and sweet treats.
Communicate the event details and start time, so that everyone gets there in time for the fun to begin. Our consultants are only there for a limited time and we wouldn't want anyone to miss out on the full demo.
4 - Set the tone
Create a cozy setting at home or at the venue! Ambience is everything and can set the mood for the night. Use lighting, music and drinks to create the perfect setting. The backdrop can add to the intimacy of the evening, especially when addressing taboo topics and sharing intimate information. Take note, this is an intentional event, as we are there to help provide information and share our products with the intention to provide a platform for your friends to learn something new and share their stories in an unashamed space.
5 - Hostess with the mostest
No party is complete without food & drinks. Make sure to have some snacks & drinks available. We have always noticed this to help loosen up the crowd. This is when the giggles start to flow!
6 - Dress code
There is no particular dress code required to host a Hedonist party. You can choose a more casual setting but remember it’s also a good opportunity to take photos with your girlfriends and to feel unapologetically sexy. Our consultant will be more than happy to be your photographer!
One of our main policies as a Hedonist Tribe is to keep our packaging subtle and discreet. We respect everyone's privacy and so should you. We will always make sure to get consent from everyone present before taking photos and posting them. We run a safe space for everyone to feel comfortable, connected and included!
8 - Time to shop
Unlike shopping in a store or online, you and your guests will be able to learn exactly how each product works in a safe and shame-free environment, with your privacy kept at our highest priority. We will extend a 15% discount to all attendees on the night of the event. Transactions will be digital and we accept payment through PayLah & PayNow.
Our Pleasure Experts are here to help you discover new ways to enhance your self-care hedonistic indulgence. You can choose between 2 types of events :
- Part I: ICEBREAKER GAMES (20MIN)
Set the tone for a fun-filled environment by playing an adult-focussed game that will tickle you pink
- Part II: PLEASURE 101 (25MIN X 2)
Select 2 topics to learn some new sex tips and gain more pleasure knowledge from our pleasure experts to enhance your intimate moments
1. Blow his mind: Blowjob & Handjob 101
2. Unlocking Different Types of Orgasms: Pleasure Anatomy 101
3. Spice up your sex life: Kama Sutra 101
4. Intro to kinks: BDSM 101
- Part III: SENSE-BASED SEDUCTION TECHNIQUES (50MIN)
Indulge in some hands-on play time with pleasure toys and learn how to incorporate pleasure tools into your sex life (partner-play & solo) for a toe-curling orgasmic experience.
Much like our "Just Wanna Have Fun" party, our "Bachelorette Party" offers an additional option for the bride and her bridesmaid to create their own #bridesquad using our silky soft satin robes at a very special rate!
P.S. ADD-ON OPTIONS ARE ALSO AVAILABLE
Most importantly, we want your party to be everything... and more! So, to provide you with a customised experience, we work with a community of professionals to provide an array of services to best suit your party needs. If you're looking for more add-on services, we've got you covered: Stripper Service, F&B Inclusions, Decoration of the space, Photography/Videography Service, etc...
Planning: Our Hedonist Host will liaise directly with the Client to confirm all details of event, including itinerary and content to ensure a smooth execution. We want to ensure expectations are met on both ends.
Time Management: Make sure to keep to the agreed timing, any time between 10am - 10pm (last session 8pm) from Mon - Sat.
Duration: 2h is allocated for each session (1.5h full educational workshop + 30min to shop with recommendations from our pleasure toy experts)
Attendees: We require a minimum of 4 people and a maximum but 10 people to host a Hedonist private party (That said, if you do wish to have host a party for more than 10 people, simply contact us before booking and we will curate a custom package just for you).
Ambience: A speaker can be provided by the Hedonist with a playlist to set the mood (Optional).
F&B: We absolutely want you to have fun, but the level of booze consumption will be at our client’s own discretion and responsibility. We expect all attendees to behave with a code of conduct and mutual respect.
Code of Conduct: If at any point, our Hedonist host feels mistreated or there is an act of misconduct, she has the right to exit the event and leave the venue. No refund will be issued.
About our Pleasure Experts:
Our Hedonists consist of a team of female sexual wellness advocates & long-term pleasure seekers, who aim to provide you with all the knowledge you need to feel empowered about your sexuality and equipped for all your intimate moments.
We look forward to hearing from you and ensure the best bespoke experience for you and your friends!