Gifting your partner a sex toy? Now that’s a bold (and brilliant) move. It can feel exciting, intimate, and maybe a little nerve-racking. But when done right, it becomes one of the most thoughtful and memorable gifts you’ll ever give. Whether it’s for Valentine’s, Christmas, or just to spice things up, the best gifts are about both of you. Research shows that couples who use sex toys together report higher satisfaction and deeper emotional intimacy. So, why not make it a shared experience?
Here are five creative ways to gift sex toys that spark curiosity, laughter, and connection.
1. Sensual Spa Day
Put together a luxurious self-care kit with goodies like massage oil, a plush robe, a scented candle, and, slip in a sleek “body massager” (yes, a vibrator!). Because nothing says relaxation like a little full-body pleasure therapy. A classic wand with a rounded head makes a perfect choice, even for beginners.
(Image: Netflix & Chill Gift Set)
And if they have a bathtub, give their soak a cheeky twist — drop in a “Sex Bomb” a XXL bath bomb that reveals a waterproof bullet vibrator as it fizzes in your bath water. It’s your playful way of saying, “Relax, unwind, and enjoy yourself”.
(Image: Hedonist’s Sex Bomb)
2. Romantic Weekend Getaway Kit
Pack a romantic weekend gift box with chocolates, flowers, and champagne. Then, throw in a travel-friendly couples toy, something app-controlled or remote-operated for some added fun (perhaps to use even beyond the bedroom). Present it as part of a staycation kit and let it set the tone for a night of connection and new memories.
(Image: Lovense Lush 4 & Ferri)
3. Playful Role-Play Scenario
Leave a note with the toy on the kitchen counter, labeled, “Open me at 9 PM for something unforgettable.” Use it as part of a fun role-play, like, “I’m your private concierge for the night with a special treat.” In the bedroom, dress up and become the surprise itself!
(Image: French Maid Costume)
Tip: Discover how to ease into role-play with our guide on how to introduce role-play ideas to your partner.
4. The Naughty Gift Hunt
Turn your gift into a playful interactive surprise by hiding small treats around the house. Think silky blindfolds, sultry pieces of lingerie, maybe a pair of handcuffs, and a few love notes to build anticipation. Let each clue lead to the next, with a sex toy as the grand finale. It's a fun way to tie everything together (literally).
(Image: Holly Satin 6-Piece Bow Tie Set Lingerie)
5. Steamy Movie Night In
Create the perfect atmosphere by watching an erotic film like The Secretary (2002) (trust us, it’s hot!) as a seductive prelude to your evening. Keep a playful BDSM bundle nearby—whether it’s a spreader bar, bed restraints, furry cuffs, or even a sex swing—to seamlessly and excitingly set the stage for what’s next.
(Image: Leather Bondage Spreader Bar with Cuffs)
6. Naughty Game Night Twist
Turn up the heat during game night by introducing toys as a form of playful activity. Use a card game of spicy truth-or-dares to spark flirty conversations, or incorporate naughty dice for foreplay moves.
(Image: Naughty Sex Game)
(Image: Sex Dice)
7. Inside Jokes (With Discreet Sex Toys)
If you or your partner are a little shy about introducing sex toys, start with something fun and discreet. Go for beginner-friendly designs that look more like cute keepsakes than explicit gadgets like a rose-shaped clit sucker, a banana vibrator, or a bunny egg vibrator (great for couples thanks to its remote control).
These discreet gifts make intimacy feel more approachable and exciting. Just remember: keep it lighthearted and fun, not a joke, so the moment stays thoughtful and meaningful.
(Image: Bunny Wearable Egg Vibrator)
Tip: Still not sure what to pick? Take our Sex Toy Quiz to find the perfect match for you and your partner.
Tips for Starting the Conversation
If you’re concerned that your partner might feel caught off guard, here are some golden rules to follow:
1. Keep the Conversation Open
Make it clear that the gift comes from a place of love, excitement, and curiosity. Add a reassuring line like, “I thought it could be fun for us to try something new together. No pressure—just excited to see what you think.” This shows you respect their feelings and are open to their perspective.
2. Keep It Positive
Avoid sarcastic remarks when presenting the gift. Instead, use a warm, playful tone to set a comfortable and welcoming atmosphere.
3. Manage Expectations
Emphasize that there’s no rush to use the gift right away. Prioritize comfort and exploration with a comment like, “I got this for us to enjoy whenever you’re ready. No rush!”
For more essential dos and don’ts on gifting a sex toy, grab your notebook and take notes from this useful blog!
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