Dirty Talking With Confidence

Dirty talk – it's the secret sauce of spicing things up in the bedroom. Yet, for many, the thought of uttering naughty phrases can be intimidating. Fear not! With a few tips and a sprinkle of confidence, you'll be commanding the conversation like a seasoned pro in no time.

1. It's Ok Not To Be Original 

It’s always handy to have an arsenal of phrases handy. I mean, when all the blood is rushing elsewhere, it is difficult to come up with sexy phrases on the spot. Jot down some phrases from eroticas, poems, lines from movies/shows or even books.

2. Lower Your Voice & Lean In

A sultry whisper can transform even the most mundane phrase into a tantalising tease. And since you’re whispering, you'll need to cozy up close to your partner. No one wants to miss out on dirty talk because they can't hear you!

And for an added dose of sexy, do it right next their ear and add a little heavy breathing.

3. Personalise It

Everyone has different triggers as to what gets them going. The key is finding out which type of dirty talk works best on them by experimenting and trying it out in different ways 

Eg. If you know they love it from behind, then tell them how much you want them to do that. Find out their trigger words, it's all about playing up their deepest desires.

DIRTY TALKING EXAMPLES

1. Hot & heavy single words or sounds:

• “please”, “harder”, “more”, “faster”, “deeper”, “yes”
• sounds like moans, sighs, or gasps
• some people also enjoy hearing their name being said during sex

2. Be intentional or give recognitions:

• “Don't cum until I say so”
• “You feel so good inside me”
• “I love it when you touch me there”
• “Just like that”
• “Your cock/pussy feels amazing”
• “Harder, baby. I want us to come together”

3. Build sexual tension:

• “I miss the way you taste”
• “I just keep thinking about you grabbing me and taking me”
• “I'm going to f*ck you so hard when I see you”
• “I want to feel how wet/hard you are”
• “My panties are soaked, get home quick”
• “I’ve been very bad and need to be punished”